It is wrong to assume that all knowledge or wisdom comes from books or internet sites. There are a multitude of ways to learn – more now than ever before. You can learn much about the world and yourself from traveling; from talking to people; from watching movies and documentaries; from observing animal behavior; and even from partying. It is a mistake to think that all worth while information must come from laborious effort. Sometimes it can come from fun. Of cause, as the Buddha said – everything in moderation.
Thus, I would like to spend a few words writing about after parties in Koh Phangan. It is the Thai island that has become famous for its Full Moon Party that attracts 20,000 plus people every month to celebrate the moon’s completion. It is a hectic affair spread out over a long beach. I went and discovered that many of the people there cared nothing for Thailand, dance music or the beauty of the natural surroundings. At times during the night I felt surrounded by youths spilling up the contents of their stomachs and polluting the beautiful beach and sea.
I persevered with the party until the sun came up over the sea. This was a spectacular moment. Someone then suggested going to the Backyard Party in Haad Rin Nai. I thought why not?
The after party was much better. Those who had paced themselves or who had only come for the Backyard Party were a much better group of people. Far more dignified in their cups, more respectful of Thailand and more eco-friendly. The music was a lot better as well. The techno breaks just seemed to get more dramatic as the morning rolled on. I ended up chatting to a girl at around noon. We instantly bonded, and still today, 2 years later we are in touch.
My experience of the Full Moon Party and the after party taught me not to give on an event just because my initial reactions were negative. Often good things happen unexpectedly, as do the the deepest relationships.
